Without exception, all our successes and failures are our own, not another man’s. Our condition is brought on by ourselves not by another. Our weaknesses and our strengths are our own, and are brought about by ourselves, not another. Peace and joy, stress and suffering evolve from within.
As we think so we are. As we continue to think, so we remain. No one can help us unless we are willing to be helped. In the end we are the one who must raise our thought in order to improve our condition. The only person who can alter your condition is you.